ONLY FOR YOU

 Hello guys here we meet again ,after long time hn... So how are you all ,enjoy festive season or  hope you all are doing good these days .

This piece of work I m going to dedicate to you yes it is for you the one reading this, hope at some point you will be able to relate if not then I am really sorry in advance ,hope you will respect that😊😊😊.

I think you might be feeling wronged sometimes ,alone or even helpless  for whatever reason I don't know but would like to know if you want to share 😊😊we can share the burden of yours if  don't want to share with me then share with someone close to you , it will never harm you my dear .  Just don't interpret ki if you share then your feelings might became the burden on the person whom you shared your feelings with ,it's never too late Yaar Dil kholkar ko Dekho . Don't always think so insecure that you will eventually forget his or her real intention or end up hurting them.

 My fellow mate it's of no use if you are gonna keep that baggage full of your past on your shoulders ,you can't change anything can you ... No  it's all in your mind that's it. How will you focus on your present if your eyes are still finding flaws in your future and past ,let go MERI Jaan let it go there is no point in repenting no point .

Not every person beside you is bad just try to face your issues more rather than just running away.  It's okay if you don't know how to solve it, what to do next,where to go ?,whom to ask ?,whom to trust , and many more ,leave all these questions on time ,time is the best teacher . Let go each and those thoughts that makes you believe you are worst then yesterday ,let go all those questions jinke jaavab tum dhundh na paao , Let go all those problems jinke solutions mil na paaye . Always believe someone is always there praying for your success hoping that you will be fine don't disappoint them ,fight Yaar you can win in any situation .

Life is not a game it's just a time given by god to live to fullest , to achieve your happiness , it's not like ki bas bure log h good people are also there . 

Don't keep everything in your heart sweetheart let it all out from your heart ,as small as your fist ,Kitna sambhalega bichara reham kardo , just open up speak up about what you are facing no one will laugh no one will sympathise with you they will support you ,help you grow your foundation more stronger .

Just cry out , cry if you want but don't cry for the same reason again . Or in few case there is nobody to listen you ,believe you in that situation don't forget god is always there for you , just say whatever you want to ,to god he will listen to you silently and hn it's my own experience ki that feels much good so you can try guys hope the method will help you out .😁😁😁

YOU ARE THE KING 

YOU ARE THE SUFFERER

JUST DONT FORGET 

YOU ARE BORN TO SHINE 

NOT TO WEEP ON YOUR SINS ...

Thank you 

suggestions are most welcome and happy new year guys hope this year brings joy and ray of hope in your life ☺️☺️☺️😊😊😊.

Don't forget to comment and read .

Welcome winter

 Hello guys ,how are you all , hope you all are doing well .😇😇😇. I am really very sorry very very sorry guys  sorry to make you wait for my next blog. I do have my reasons so hope you all will respect that .

"Winter is a season of recovery and preparation." 

"Winter is not a season, it's a celebration."

We all know these phrases and we actually can relate to it to an extent .it's the season when we can recover ourselves and prepare ourselves for another tough battles . even when our hands got burnt cold water helps to heal them faster ,just like that this helps our inner soul to heal in peace .

(Being cold doesn't means you are heartless or a  blood robot no it's just your way to make yourself feel more warmer, there is nothing wrong. But  neglecting your own true feelings is wrong . Don't force yourself to be an iceman types when you know you can't ,you will only end up harmming yourself.Not every time it's not necessary to be cold to the one who cheated on you just pretend like strangers and move away , even the feeling of coldness  inside you will heal you but if that becomes an emotion that will shatter you into many pieces.)THODA EXTRA GYAAN.

People say winter is the season of chill vibes coldness and many more icey words ,but it's wrong for me this is the warmest season ever . Most cozy environment you can ever find is in winters only, wrap yourself around a blanket and you will feel the warmth in the air .

The season of elachi and adrak vaali chai is on . First sip is like Amrit and voh thandi thandi hava is like ab apsaraye naach RI h saamney .

Divaali SE lekar Christmas break till welcoming new year with the warmest hugs ,then how can you say it's cold in winter .Dadi ke banaye hue sweater ,voh rajaayi vaali garami ,handshake mey voh thodi Der or vaali feeling . Hot milk ya coffee with  a quilt  then tell me guys where is thandi vaali feeling .

Welcome winters ! Hope you will bring joy and prosperous life to all of us . A beautiful request from your lover (winter lover).

Few beautiful words-

*Albert Camus

In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer.

*Lewis Carroll

I wonder if the snow loves the trees and fields, that it kisses them so gently? And then it covers them up snug, you know, with a white quilt; and perhaps it says, "go to sleep, darlings, till the summer comes again.

Let's start calling winters the warmest months ever not the cold ones 😇😇

Bbyie guys hope to see you soon.

Love letter to winters

From- Me 😁😁

Treasure box

 Hii everyone, hope everyone is fine at their end . First I want to share a poem with you hope you all will like it if not then sorry I can't do anything about that ,Just kidding guys relax  . So here I am -

I grew up with many flaws 

They accepted me with immense hope

Don't know when I turned against them 

That was the biggest mistake I committed back then ,

I don't know why I behaved like that 

I don't know why they corrected me again and again ,

I was busy in earning money 

And they get the idea of 'don't want' anymore 

Silently they pave their way to death

For me to live happily sacrificed their every sec 

Dis is not what I want but happened and end worse then I expect,

I shouted at them but they didn't fought back 

That  was their sign' we can't suffer anymore '

They left and at last I was all alone

Thinking what a big fool I was ?

Destroyed my happiness with my own hands ...

 

The poem is bit tricky I know, ahhh sorry...  ,so lemme tell you this poem is actually about a parent and child relationship .

 I do want to add more but that will for sure full of mystery ,so I need to stop somewhere . My bad .  Huhhhh..

We all know in ancient times parents used to decide with whom their children are going to marry ,they decide what their future proffession will be  ,and many many decisions . By the time, now we have the liberty to do whatever we want to  . Wow !!dude means such a  drastic change ,now kind of feeling proud 😌😌 ... Hahahaha...leave it . But it's Very

Very ironic  that in past children don't have the liberty ,they follows Thier parents command not even dare to question their decision , now children have the liberty but still dare to disrespect Thier  parents.

Commendable means how we are accepting the change such a positive way ,talking to the elders disrespectfully , arguing with them hats off guys.

Children nowadays arguing with their parents ,why I can't go out with my friends?, They used to say ' it's my life i will do whatever I wish to , you don't need to interfere in my business ' I was like are you serious interfere is it a joke can't you all understand this Little thing that you don't have any existence without your parents .  Telling ,them to mind their own business then let me tell you it's your parents choice to let you come in this world so you must be thankful to them . Boys are like I don't care what my parents say I still will continue not to study ( fir aage jaake vahi krna h Chote note kaam bas) and girls are like I will leave my parents for you my sweetheart , means are you kidding what is happening with you all guys . Kaha jaa rahe ho , where . 

Sometimes I can understand ki yes you are out of control and just shouted at them but on daily basis cursing those hands who feeds you then I must say you don't deserve anything.

Literally no one, no one I am saying again, just  our generation,who is kicking out of their parents from their homes to old age homes . Can't you even take care of them what do you think what they want your money ( tumhaare liye kamaya), property ( Jo already tumhe Dedi) they just want some quality time with you that's it and you don't want to give that even .

 And at last when you are in any problem you are like mom dad please help me  and they still do . They are so humble to you na . 

Not everyone get what you have ,world's biggest treasures ,mom who will care for you ,cook for you and dad earn for you, sacrifice his own happiness for you .

In there whole lifetime they haven't even heard of I pod but still will brought one  you if you want .

Don't argue with them don't shout on them don't . They are not mad that they are nagging on you for no reason you must have did something wrong ,so just try to accept your mistake and live happily .

Coz when they will be gone you will regret for what you have done to them .save  them don't use them .

Now I won't lecture anymore or gonna write anymore on dis topic hope you all understand what I want to say .

As usual I want to write further sigh... But I can't Varna you will think such a bore I am .

 Special thanks to Aaqueeb who suggested me to write on this topic . Thank you very 

much .

Suggestions are most welcome as usual  . Thanks for reading this. 

Dear teen

 Hello friends but plz no chaai pilo just drink whatever you want to . I am here to give you a little bit of gyaan ( knowledge ) or or enlightenment I know these heavy words are such a burden ufff... leave it 

These are the few lines hope you all can relate 

    DEAR TEEN DON'T MAKE MY FUN 

     I WANN BE COOL BUT ALWAYS END UP AS FOOL

    Oh GOD THIS PHASE IS TOUGH

    DONT KNOW WHAT I DID IS CORRECT OR WRONG...

So I hope you all got a hint of what I m going to write about . Teenagers /adolescent ,age of puberty ,the phase when we are neither big (adult) nor small (kid) . A time phase which decides our future, built our character and most importantly very adventurous ,hurtful , beautiful and confusing stage . We  experiences a roller coaster of emotions . We get to know different people ,try to act act cool , start Abusing because they think it's actually a proud think , start bunking classes ( not saying that don't bunk just saying not on regular basis) passing lame comments on teacher and lame jokes all these shitty things which we kind of think as cool or even regard as thug life .

So let me tell you these things doesn't make you look cool I know you want to explore everything in just a snap but you can't you need to have patience. 

In this age we get  ourselves into many worst things which we used to regret later on . We started thinking like nobody is bigger than me ,if he can buy an apple phone why can't I at this age so we start arguing with our parents . Even on small issues we used to fight with our siblings . We try to get our so called privacy ( of no use ) .

I know and can understand ki it's happens parents SE ladaayi , dost Ka panga ,teacher ki daant and all . It's actually a new start ,a burst of emotions , web of hormones and hurricane of loads of rresponsibility.We get attracted to many guys around us or hot girls ,we usually got infactuated ,crush ,break up and patch ups and all ,but forgetting about your studies is wrong , started doing bad things in love is wrong , isolating yourself from your family just because you want to spend more time with your girlfriend / boyfriend is wrong .

Focus on your career first ,then on other things I am not saying that stop  loving , living or enjoying.  Just change your way that's it .

Got into the fight with your parents ,then just stand still and don't argue further because you even yourself don't know  what you are saying in anger or in some situations both parents and you are correct at your own place . You know what after long arguement with your parents  you then used to realise that you did say something wrong . So don't get yourself in that situation.

I do have a lot to say still letmme stop here only . Varna you all would say' oh gosh she writes so much' so let's end it here

Hope you all like it 

Suggestions are most welcome as usual.

Thank you 

It's mutual

 Hello friends I m back now ,lemme tell you one thing I will publish my blogs once in every week so hope u will check out my blogs ,This a kind notice to all my readers.

Walking alone in the market lane nothing felt like usual . suddenly my phone rang (Zara Zara mehakta h...) I picked up the call there was no excitement anymore it changes to sorrow coz I knew that ,that call not gonna make me happy anymore . I answered the call "yes , so we are gonna meet where ?",he replied" cafe coffee Day"still the voice was melodious so humble to ears he said "say something I m waiting " then my dream broke I replied"aghhh... I will be there at 5:00 pm sharp ." He knows I m very punctual so he replied " I still believe you ..."a deep and dark silence was there at that time I can feel his heavy breathes telling me not to come sigh ... Just to broke the ice I said " I know ... let's meet and continue our conversation at cafe" I just heard "hmmm" and then he hung up . We both know  that this will be the turning point of our lives .  At 5 sharp I was there in the cafe where as usual he was 5 minutes earlier then me . At first we said nothing to each other coz we both knew it already what we both gonna say to each other isn't it ironic naa... Our eyes met a silence broke ,he was shivering at that time ,I held his hand ,very cold actually . Finally he said " I know  I can't live without you but I will try ,I know you will still love me, I know even you don't want this but we need to "...with heach heart I said " I understand "... 

Both left at the same time to different path .That was the last goodbye last meeting last chatting last, last, last ...

O  gosh!... same day at night he called  me " god knows why the hell I m crying I can't live without you you are mine but on the same side I know we need to, it's mutual I know ..." He was shaking his voice was breaking at that time I  said nothing he cried his heart out and I was just weeping  this  is what i can do at that time I felt so helpless. I hang up the call coz I can't stand his tears and all. Again, that was the last phone call.

I just texted him "have a wonderful life ahead " that's the end of our relationship don't you think it just ended up like that no drama at all . Because sometimes we need to just give a happy ending to a story . Even he knows that  the day would come when we need to part away . He didn't forced me to stay either do I . we just say farewell to each other and left . 

I need to say who said this that men take more time to get out from break up not girls ,who said this that if a break up happens then it must be ki ''kisi ek ne dhokha de Diya hoga' why you all used to think like that ,when break up happens it hurts both of them equally no-one is hurt more or less . Rest voh Kitna time lagata h ubharne mey it's their tendency to move on some take less or some mor time upto them . 

I still remember those beautiful memories we shared  . Those days were surely beautiful. 

He became the most incredible chapter of my life .

Sometimes it's compulsory to part away then being together .  Sometimes holding a rope hurts  more and  leaving it  gives happiness.

We need to understand this .

Hope you all like it . Suggestions are most welcome as usual.