Dear teen

 Hello friends but plz no chaai pilo just drink whatever you want to . I am here to give you a little bit of gyaan ( knowledge ) or or enlightenment I know these heavy words are such a burden ufff... leave it 

These are the few lines hope you all can relate 

    DEAR TEEN DON'T MAKE MY FUN 

     I WANN BE COOL BUT ALWAYS END UP AS FOOL

    Oh GOD THIS PHASE IS TOUGH

    DONT KNOW WHAT I DID IS CORRECT OR WRONG...

So I hope you all got a hint of what I m going to write about . Teenagers /adolescent ,age of puberty ,the phase when we are neither big (adult) nor small (kid) . A time phase which decides our future, built our character and most importantly very adventurous ,hurtful , beautiful and confusing stage . We  experiences a roller coaster of emotions . We get to know different people ,try to act act cool , start Abusing because they think it's actually a proud think , start bunking classes ( not saying that don't bunk just saying not on regular basis) passing lame comments on teacher and lame jokes all these shitty things which we kind of think as cool or even regard as thug life .

So let me tell you these things doesn't make you look cool I know you want to explore everything in just a snap but you can't you need to have patience. 

In this age we get  ourselves into many worst things which we used to regret later on . We started thinking like nobody is bigger than me ,if he can buy an apple phone why can't I at this age so we start arguing with our parents . Even on small issues we used to fight with our siblings . We try to get our so called privacy ( of no use ) .

I know and can understand ki it's happens parents SE ladaayi , dost Ka panga ,teacher ki daant and all . It's actually a new start ,a burst of emotions , web of hormones and hurricane of loads of rresponsibility.We get attracted to many guys around us or hot girls ,we usually got infactuated ,crush ,break up and patch ups and all ,but forgetting about your studies is wrong , started doing bad things in love is wrong , isolating yourself from your family just because you want to spend more time with your girlfriend / boyfriend is wrong .

Focus on your career first ,then on other things I am not saying that stop  loving , living or enjoying.  Just change your way that's it .

Got into the fight with your parents ,then just stand still and don't argue further because you even yourself don't know  what you are saying in anger or in some situations both parents and you are correct at your own place . You know what after long arguement with your parents  you then used to realise that you did say something wrong . So don't get yourself in that situation.

I do have a lot to say still letmme stop here only . Varna you all would say' oh gosh she writes so much' so let's end it here

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It's mutual

 Hello friends I m back now ,lemme tell you one thing I will publish my blogs once in every week so hope u will check out my blogs ,This a kind notice to all my readers.

Walking alone in the market lane nothing felt like usual . suddenly my phone rang (Zara Zara mehakta h...) I picked up the call there was no excitement anymore it changes to sorrow coz I knew that ,that call not gonna make me happy anymore . I answered the call "yes , so we are gonna meet where ?",he replied" cafe coffee Day"still the voice was melodious so humble to ears he said "say something I m waiting " then my dream broke I replied"aghhh... I will be there at 5:00 pm sharp ." He knows I m very punctual so he replied " I still believe you ..."a deep and dark silence was there at that time I can feel his heavy breathes telling me not to come sigh ... Just to broke the ice I said " I know ... let's meet and continue our conversation at cafe" I just heard "hmmm" and then he hung up . We both know  that this will be the turning point of our lives .  At 5 sharp I was there in the cafe where as usual he was 5 minutes earlier then me . At first we said nothing to each other coz we both knew it already what we both gonna say to each other isn't it ironic naa... Our eyes met a silence broke ,he was shivering at that time ,I held his hand ,very cold actually . Finally he said " I know  I can't live without you but I will try ,I know you will still love me, I know even you don't want this but we need to "...with heach heart I said " I understand "... 

Both left at the same time to different path .That was the last goodbye last meeting last chatting last, last, last ...

O  gosh!... same day at night he called  me " god knows why the hell I m crying I can't live without you you are mine but on the same side I know we need to, it's mutual I know ..." He was shaking his voice was breaking at that time I  said nothing he cried his heart out and I was just weeping  this  is what i can do at that time I felt so helpless. I hang up the call coz I can't stand his tears and all. Again, that was the last phone call.

I just texted him "have a wonderful life ahead " that's the end of our relationship don't you think it just ended up like that no drama at all . Because sometimes we need to just give a happy ending to a story . Even he knows that  the day would come when we need to part away . He didn't forced me to stay either do I . we just say farewell to each other and left . 

I need to say who said this that men take more time to get out from break up not girls ,who said this that if a break up happens then it must be ki ''kisi ek ne dhokha de Diya hoga' why you all used to think like that ,when break up happens it hurts both of them equally no-one is hurt more or less . Rest voh Kitna time lagata h ubharne mey it's their tendency to move on some take less or some mor time upto them . 

I still remember those beautiful memories we shared  . Those days were surely beautiful. 

He became the most incredible chapter of my life .

Sometimes it's compulsory to part away then being together .  Sometimes holding a rope hurts  more and  leaving it  gives happiness.

We need to understand this .

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When hope dies

Yo buddies ,we meet again hope you all loved my blogs . So sorry I know I m a bit late to upload something new . Now be ready I am up with a new content today . Onfire!!! Mode on . We all have heard of poem' mirror mirror on the wall' one day a girl in metro is singing the song "mirror mirror on the wall I want to live but why need hope?" I actually felt her innocence dammit how cute she was. But forget everything now, focus on her question why we need hope? I got few replies I m going to share  them with you 1.don't talk nonsense Yaar who need it, it's just our belief nothing else...

2.abey yaar money is important.

3. Omg !water and oxygen is more important nothing else.

And so on I was not able to hear any better ans from them I was like, what, our generation is on wrong path. it's said "umeed par duniya kaayam h"yea it's true we want money ,water, oxygen these are our necessities we want them but we need hope that ,yes oxygen and water will be there in future ,yes I m gonna rich one day . Hope gives us reason to live . But when it dies' hum zinda laash ban jaate h' we used to physically present but we are mentally and emotionally absent.people start opting for suicide , as they are not able to decide now what to do, for them that used to be the most vulgur or worst feeling trust me guys   and The most tragedic thing is when   the person dies we used to realize o !he left the world,why can't he share his burden with me? at that time you know I literally was feeling very sarcastic that you used to realize this when he died not when he was alive ,at that time when he needed you the most you all are busy in your own world of expectations don't you all think this kinda funny Yaar...it's like dude" maarunga bhi Mai or bachaaunga bhi Mai" another joke of life huh... But my friends 'suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem'so better not give up early you are the writers of your own journey write it well that people will realize you are not someone whom you can broke with your shallow games.

Just remember another thing we need to give empathy not sympathy, ohk ...people are just alone they are not brainless,get that, they want someone with whom they can share their pain not the one 'taras khaaye or chod de'

                 WHEN THINGS ARE TOUGH 

 YOU MUST BE TOUGHER

         SHOW THEM THAT YOUR LIFE CAN BE    BETTER

              PROVE THEM WRONG..

DONT OPT FOR SUICIDE...

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Mystery of happiness

Hello friends hope everything is fine  at your end ,don't forget to thanks God for giving you wonderful parents, friends , relatives etc in your life .I know I know you all  must be curious, that why I have choosen such a mysterious topic , actually it's about a great mystery which saints, philosophers ,and many mahatamas are not able to solve and now this responsibility is on my shoulders , omg.... Please bless me.Have you ever played pen fighting in between of your class or session ...how foolish I am yea for sure you all must have done this once in your lifetime,what kind of feeling  you get after that ???   Don't know about others but I  felt like I have conquered the world in flash of time, the great satisfaction and a big smile on my face  hahahaha... Have you ever experienced that you are sitting in the metro and suddenly a huge smile pop up on your face for no reason seriously for no specific reason, you felt sudden happiness and every other passenger sitting beside you felt how wierd you are or  a psychopath true naa . We don't need any reason to be happy . We just need a beautiful thinking. Sigh ... I am not Able to win o  god! why you did this to me ? Stop saying this why can't you be happy that yes I did my best and happy that my friend won the competition ,feeling happy would never be out of style  . Passing through a long road ,in the deep thoughts ,you still remembered your childhood days  when there is no need to think of any reason to be happy . Then why so today we need a reason, can't we feel happy just by seeing are parents alive ,talking happily ,why we need a reason now just because we all are grown ups now . We can remember those happy days and feel bad that those days are gone ,why not make your present happy with those who are still there with you . Have you all seen sharukh Khan's movie Devdas there is a very famous dialogue "HAR DUKH AANE VAALI KHUSHI KO CHITTHI HOTA H... OR HAR NUKSAAN AANE VAALE FAAYDE KA ISHAARA "

 chill yaar we only have one life to live so why not spend it happily  .Oh no! I lost my phone !, Not again I lost my another job ,why can't they understand me ? I wanna die ... Uff the god is cruel with me and so on... And so on blah blah blah... Stop complaining yaar come on get up don't feel sad start from fresh whenever you felt you lost . Act madly ,smile every day ,be happy for no reason ,start your day with rocking music and bang on don't think about what people are thinking let them think they can't do rather than thinking just say "yes i m pretty and talented that's why they have stopped to admire me " you know jealous people .we all have heard of song 

   "HASTE HASTE  KAT JAAYE RASTE

ZINDAGI YUHI CHALTI RAHE

KHUSHI MILE YA GAM BADLENGE NA HUM

DUNIYA CHAHE BADALTI RAHE ..."

Apply this in your life and you all will notice being happy for no reason is biggest satisfaction.... 

Thank you 

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Does it matters

Hello we meet again,  with a new topic . hope you all like my previous blog.

Few days back no no no ... Few months back because of pandemic I m in my home for more than months aghh .. leave it , back to the topic ,we Indians loves wedding the most I repeat Indians not the bride and the groom because they both know 'band hamara bajega or naachega koi or',... so it was my sister's wedding and we went to the home of groom for a official meeting of both the families.  Families were happy discussing that how time flies both the children are now grown up and blah .blah blah. So after a long discussion my sister and Raj ( fiancee)went to the terrace to have a small chit chat or the worst part ,I was also there with them at that time to keep an eye on them I know it's sounds wierd sigh..I can't do anything about that I was the third wheel there ahh... . Both of them are happily discussing their future plans  Then I heard Raj asking my sister that" are you virgin or not?." she said honestly and sternly"no"he was shocked and I can't control myself at that time and said "DOES IT MATTERS"he was confused and I left in resentmen .Now does it really matters wether someone is virgin or not .It's just our body need that's it why can't we all understand this . We all should be affected by the present and the loyalty of someone not by Thier virginity. We should understand that in true relationships and in pure love it's just a stepping stone .We should focus on how truthful that person is with you that he /she have told you that yes I m not .If somebody asks you" are you a virgin?"then just say "my business is my business, none of your business,so stop meddling."

VIRGINITY IS THE

POETRY OF LIFE

NOT THE REALITY...

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